"The heart of her husband safely trusts her; so he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life."
Proverbs 31: 11-12.
The purpose of the "Breath of Life Men" blog:
The Women's Ministry wants to let our men know how much the women of Breath of Life love and honor you. We appreciate the daily challenges we see you face.
We want to let you know that we are holding you up in constant prayer, individually and collectively. We pray for you as you lead our church and our homes. We pray for your spirit, your health, your home, your job, your marriage, your children and your manhood.
To the women:
This is an opportunity to write a tribute to, a prayer for, or a remembrance of a man of God who has influenced you in your life or spiritual development. You may be specific in naming the man to whom you are paying tribute, or you may keep his name to yourself.
To the kids:
We encourage the children of the church to write thoughts about their fathers, uncles, grandfathers or brothers.
To the men:
We would be happy to see thoughts, prayer requests or reflections from our men. You can speak about the challenges of being an old man, a young man, a father, a son, a single man, a husband, or a man in general who is walking the walk of faith.
"A good man obtains favor from the Lord..."
Proverbs 12:2
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God bless the wonderful men of Breath of Life.
I am so excited to have this opportunity to celebrate the men of Breath of Life. I will begin of course with my husband, Roger. The Lord has gifted him with so many talents and he is so many things to so many people. I am daily inspired by his commitment to his family, his church and his God.
More to come...
My father is the most amazing person I know! His Christianity inspires me in my own relationship with God, his sense of humor is priceless, his advice has never led me wrong, and his love for his family and his patients can be seen in everything he does. I love him with all my heart!
I truly think we have a special "breed" of men at BOL. I am so proud that my sons have these men as examples of how loving God can be cool. Our men have the talents, the commitment, the strength and the attitudes that glorify God.
Shomari, thank you for being such a committed father. One day your sons will look back and see how much of your time and effort was put into making sure they grew into strong men. ESPECIALLY since we have a teenager! : )
BOL men, you ROCK!
Like an oak tree in the forest, his strength is vast, available for all to experience, never wavering no matter the storm, that is my husband, Nathan Lewis. I am truly blessed to have him as my husband and friend. This December 24th, we will celebrate our 30th wedding anniversary and I can truly say, I would marry him again!
I wish to thank him for his patience and understanding when I was having a "moment"... (I hope those have been far and few between!)
I thank him for his unconditional love! I thank him for his tireless work ethic...he keeps long hours to make sure our needs are met...We may not say it as often as we should but this Father's Day we want you to know that we LOVE you to the moon and back! Have a wonderful Day honey!!!
The man who had the most influence in my life was born the son of a sharecropper, and was raised by his grandmother. I know he loved the Lord. I wasn't what he said, it was how he lived his life. I can remember him kneeling next to his bed praying, and sitting on the side of the bed reading his bible. He was a man who believed in education, although his grandmother could not read or write. She cleaned and cooked for people in order for him to go to school. In fact, he taught her how to read and write, after he started school. After graduating high school, he got a job working on the railroad. He supported his grandmother until she died.
He married and started a family. He knew he needed more education in order to support his family. In those days there was no financial aid so he worked and went to school. The family lived in a housing project. His wife worked days, so he took his daughter to school with him. On the weekends and nights he and his wife would cater parties for the rich people in Beverly Hills. She would cook, and he would bartend. In those days it was a lot safer than it is now. They would make a bed in the back of their old car so their little girl could sleep. They would check on from time to time.
In May 1954 he received a Bachelors of Science degree. In 1958 he moved his family to San Fernando, CA, where he started his business and furthered his education at UCLA. While working at Rockwell he received several commendations for his work on Columbia, the first Space Shuttle to orbit the earth. He also worked on the Space Shuttle Enterprise. He also worked to further the cause of women and minorities, serving as a member of the Equal Opportunity Advisory Sub-Committee.
His wife died, and he had two young girls to raise alone ages eight and ten years old. He couldn't cook, clean, or comb hair, but with God leading him he made it.
I thank God for this man called David Potts. His is my father, and I am the little girl he took to school with him. He would always ask before we left home, do you need to use the restroom? I would always say no. And as soon as we would get to school, I would say I need to go, and he would get one of the ladies to take me. I never told him this, but all I wanted was to play in the water while washing my hands. He would fall for it every time.
My father always treated his three daughters like ladies. He never raised his voice or hit us. He never missed giving us things for the holidays. I remember as far back as I can, his giving us Sees candy, and flowers for Valentines day. I can remember whatever I needed or wanted he gave.
He was always willing to give financial help to anyone striving to complete their education.
I can't ever remember a time asking him a question he could not answer. He loved reading, and had beautiful handwriting. He enjoyed encouraging people to get an education. He also enjoyed politics and traveling. He always said he was a black man born in 1916, and if God could do it for him He could do it for others.
Antonette Simpson
Although my son Michael is not a father, or even married, I can honestly say, he was a child who could always be trusted and would not lie.
I can remember when he was in the 8th grade and a teacher accused him of cheating on a math paper, and Michael said he didn't cheat. So because he was a child of his work, and always being honest, after talking with the principle, the teacher apologized to me.
Thank God for my son Michael.
This is a man who had a big influence in my life. Married to him for over 31 years.
After suffering from an injury to his leg, he had to retire frim a promising career as a major league baseball player. He took a job as a territory manager as a food broker - a job he truly hated for more than 28 years, in order to support his family.
As the Community Services leader, he supports me, and the Church in many ways.
23 years ago when BOL started the feeding ministry in Downtown Los Angeles, he got his employers to donate to the homeless.
Many times when I need to go into bad neighborhoods, he will drive me. He was a great help with the Hurricane Katrina effort, loading vans and delivering the clothing and food to needy families with me. He is always willing to donate money to help others.
Thank you God for a giving me a wonderful husband, father, and helpmate.
Antonette Simpson
This is a very special man, my son-in-law Jerry Tucker. Although he doesnt't attend BOL regularly, he always brings my two grandchildren to Sabbath School, and on time. And on Sunday he takes them to his church and Sunday School.
He prays and reads the Bible with them. He's a big support to my daughter.
Thank you God
Antonette Simpson
my dad (Cedric McCoy) is funny. He alway makes me laugh. I love him with all my heart. I'm glad that I can see, and talk to him whenever I want. God always looks after him.
love Heaven
Jerry is always at work. I barely see him. He works 2 jobs. When I have a day off at school, he takes off to spend time with me.
Love Heaven
I Love my Dad (Jerry Tucker). He's cool.
Love Deaven
It gives me great pleasure to recognize an extraordinary man, my son Lourin...who stepped up to the challenge of raising his young family alone after the tragedy of losing his wife and unborn child unexpectedly to death. I watched him with pride as he immediately took on the daily rigors of being a Mom and Dad while continuing to serve his country and cope with unspeakable greif.
Your devotion to your family...
Your love for God...
Your service to your country...
All of these are reasons to thank God for you and pray you have a blessed Father's Day.
It's not often that we get the opportunity to publicly express how much a loved one has impacted our life. Needless to say, I'm thrilled to be able to share how much my father means to me.
Growing up, my father served a variety of roles of in my life which include but are not limited to: lawenforcer, counselor, prankster, loan officer, friend, protector, and advocate. However the one role that he's never taken lightly or ever relinquished is that of God's ambassador.
As my father often says, "Your only choice is to choose your Master". It is clear to me, from the way he loves his family, his church, and his patients, that he chose God and continues to choose Him on a daily basis.
What more can I say, he's my daddy and I love him with all my heart!
To the rest of the BOL Men, it is a blessing and quite refreshing to see so many men committed to doing the will of God. It's not often that you get praised, so thank you!
I want to thank God for my LA Dad, Ivan Colon. I am so thankful for his Christian witness to me. I want to thank him for welcoming me with open arms as he would a member of his own family, for genuinely caring and having concern for my family and for me, for his continual prayers that sustain us throughout our different trials and the confidence that I have that his prayers have and are being answered and are reaping much blessing in my life and in the lives of those I love, for being the genuine SDA Dad I never had, for the shining example of a Husband/Father that he gives to his wife and his children, for the lovingkindness and faithfulness that he shows to his family, his friends, and to his church, for his wisdom, integrity, and leadership by example, and for all the wonderful moments of laughter and joy that I've experienced in being an adopted member of his family. Thank you so much for being a blessing in my life and thank you for stepping up to the plate and being my LA Dad.
It is an honor to share some thoughts about the two most important men in my life. I'll start with the first man who has made me who I am, my father, Roger Frazier. So many times, parents believe that their children should always view them as perfect and protect that image at all costs...which usually ends badly because the truth is, no one is perfect. My dad did the opposite and shared freely the mistakes he made with his children so we would learn from them. I can honestly say, I've had such little heartache because of that. Though he was strict, I understood why he protected us the way he did. He always told me he loved me and I was beautiful.(even when I was quite awkward):) He gave me confidence and I didn't look for validation or acceptance from any man because I already knew my worth. I believe that confidence led me to the man I gave my life to, James L. Kyle III.
James has proved himself over and over in the short two and a half months that we've been married that he is a loyal, hardworking, honest, and tender husband. Aside from falling in love with Jesus, my decision to marry James is the best choice I have ever made. Everyday he inspires me to be a better wife because of how he loves and treats me. I'm cookin' and cleanin'...(all of which is new to me.:) But the amazing thing is I do it joyfully, because of who he is to me. I always feel safe (for obvious reasons):) when he is around. I know that he always has everything under control and that is so appealing! He views us as a team and boy am I on a good team!:)
My father and my husband, your love has made me who I am.
It is a wonderful thing and a joy to be able to lift up our men at Breath of Life!
To my husband, Jerry! Everyday is a time to honor you, the Christian man in my life by letting you know how much you are loved and appreciated; and to say thanks for all you have done. Thank you for a great relationship together. My hope and prayer is that you will continue to be blessed and encouraged from this day forward. I so admired your dedication and commitment to God’s ministry, a ministry of love. I am in awe of your strength, your integrity, and mostly your faith in our Lord. You and my Lord and Savior are the biggest source of my strength.
Any life lived for God’s purpose is highly significant to me! My love for you is endless…
I am very glad to have the opportunity to express my gratitude to all of the men of BOL. But, I am especially pleased to share a few sentences about my BOL man, Bernard Pendergrass. Although, he is not a father, he reflects The Father's character each and ever day in our home. I know without a shadow of a doubt that I'm second to none but Christ. And, I love that! He appreciates all the things that I do as a wife and makes a point to tell me so. He believes that I can do anything...even when I have my doubts. He respects me and truly values my opinion. And, after almost 15 years of marriage, the man still thinks I'm hot! I not only love this man, but I am proud to be his wife.
He's loving, kind, musical, artistic, humorous, and a terrific father. These are great attributes, but topping them all is his love for God. Every morning he studies God's word. We have many religious discussions, and I am always astounded and inspired by his knowledgeable comments and his love for God. BOL is a blessing to him and me. Arnib, you are my life and a precious jewel.
Reed is a special man with an endearing smile and a genuine charm. He has always made me feel important and loved.
As we move into parenthood, I see his love deepening for Luc every day. From the 6 ft. stuffed crocodile he bought on a whim to the time he has spent reading "What to Expect in the First Year", "Are Those Kids Yours?", and "I'm Chocolate, You're Vanilla" Reed has demonstrated his commitment to our son.
It is a wonderful feeling to be loved deeply by a man I respect and admire and think is the smartest, handsomest man ever. It is a new honor to watch this man's love grow for our child.
This Dad, Reed, is an amazing gift from God. He is a gift for his son, and also for his wife.
Pastor Frazier is like General Electric… With the word of God he lights your path.
Pastor Frazier is like Hallmark Cards… He cares enough to do his very best.
Pastor Frazier is like Tide… He preaches the stain out that others leave behind.
Pastor Frazier is like VO5 Hair Spray… He holds the church together through all kinds of weather.
Pastor Frazier is like Sears… God has given him everything.
Pastor Frazier is like Scotch Tape… You can’t always see him, but you know he’s there holding up the blood stained banner.
Pastor Frazier is like FED-X… He will deliver God’s message around the world right on time.
Pastor Frazier's God is like Alka Seltzer… Try him, you’ll like him, He’s a quick relief.
Happy Father's Day Roger - We can all see that GOD is Blessing you and your household, I believe God is pleased with you his faithful servant, He will say Well done my Son.
My husband, Ned Lindsay, is my rock, my anchor. With him, my heart, my life and my spirit feel safe. Providence brought us together and through Ned and his family, I found my way to the truth and to my faith in God and my baptism into the Adventist faith. I have never felt happier and surer of anything in my life. He is a wonderful husband to me and a loving father to his two children... I thank God every day for our life together.
At Breath of Life, Ned and I have found family. I am very happy to have the opportunity to honor and express admiration and love for the men of BOL. As I look through the great photos of our heros here on the blog, it brings smiles, laughs and true admiration. Thank you gentlemen. You are the best.
My daddy is pretty laid-back about most things... but has NO tolerance for foolishness. I love that about him! His humor is sharp, hilarious and an eye-rolling-shake-your-head-"oh-my" kinda corny at the same time. He's strong, kind and shows my mom and all his children much love. One thing that stands out is his consistent reminders to my brothers sister and me to, no matter what we do and where we are, to "stay prayerful."
I may be clear across the country, but those words are still with me.
Elder Jerry Warren, thank you for your visionary leadership, innovative programs, and your example of exceptional organization. You inspire, encourage and challenge us all to give our best to the Master.
Gwen Flagg,
I would like to say a few words to celebrate my bother on this Father's Day. Minus the sibbling rivalry, and sometimes your incuisitive ways, you are to be commended for your good heart, and generous nature, and principled lifestyle. I am honored to have witnessed your loving and caring attitude to your students and other responsibili-
ties. Even to the point of extending your self beyond school hours and locations, you have put yourself out to help students of multiple ethnicities, and troubled backgrounds with little regard for self. Most of all, Clinton, Missey, Baruch, and Mandala thank you for all of your patience, your loving care and guidance. I, also, thank you for all of your help. May God continue to be your first priority and daily bless you and guide you in all that you do, say, and think.
Your Sister
Wow,Alvin Clavon is such a WONDERFUL father it started with his nieces and nephews, patiently taking care of them. Then he loved on my nieces and nephews, and then God blessed us with (3) of our own. Your protective eyes and heart inspire me to look beyond the obvious and explore the spiritual connections. Jordan as a little boy would not smile in the camera he always looked down. You decided that you would show him that his daddy cares about him and made a commitment to teach him how to take pride in who God made him. Now, 4 years later he is a confident boy with a special relationship with his DAD! Thank you for noticing the little things....
I love the way you embrace our BOL children. When they see you they get in line so that you will twirl them around. The laughter that comes from their mouths is the most precious sound. Thank you Alvin for being a loving example for our sons. I see the way they love on children, and I know it is because of YOU. I LOVE YOU A.T. II
Dear Dad,
I love ya. You are the funnest, funniest dad ever and are the best dad a kid could have. You're awesome and the best dad in the world.
I have learned the importance of being disciplined from you and have learned that whatever you want, go for it!
From your loving son,
Justice
My dad is a great guy. He’s smart, funny, athletic and nice.
I learn a lot from him. I learned how to play basketball better. I also learned how give a firm handshake. People tell me all the time “Nice firm handshake.” It’s good to have a dad because some kids don’t have dads.
Every mother prays for her daughter to find the man of her dreams. I am so thankful that God has answered my prayers for my daughters, Shelea and Shelana.
James, she's "sure it's you..." and so am I. :) I have seen the love you have for her in so many ways. You are a man of honor and integrity and as you protect and serve the citizens in your city, I know will protect, serve and cherish my precious daughter, Shelea.
Justin, your wife has told me that God saved you especially for her and I believe that beyond a shadow of a doubt. You are everything she could ever want. Your gentle strength, godly humility and sweet, loving ways has given her heart a home.
I am so happy that I have a chance to share some wonderful words about my husband Alvin Chea. God gave me the chance to "love" again and a man of "God". I thank God everyday for Alvin's kindness, love & support. Alvin is such a great and patient father who will do anything for his children. I know one day Braxton, Cole & Channing will tell him.."Thank You Daddy" for everything you have done for me and setting the example of how a Godly man, husband should live his life. Honey bunny I love you very much and glad that God brought us together.
Me :-)
To my Daddy,
No matter how old I get, you'll always be my 'Daddy'. I'm so grateful for your unconditional love and support. I knew I could be the best at anything I wanted to, because 'my daddy told me so'. I can still remember coming home and telling you about various accomplishments, "Daddy, I did well on this test or I got this award" and you'd always say with a smile, "I'm so proud of you...but I'm not surprised." Your confidence in my abilities has inspired me to pursue my dreams. Thank you for always wanting to give me the best and making sacrifices for your family. I love you so very much. You possess so many qualities that set the standard for the kind of man that I knew I wanted for myself, and only one met and exceeded my expectations...my husband. : )
What can I say? My mom stole my thunder with her poetic lines. :P Justin, you are IT. You are the embodiment of what God designed when he made man. Your love for me, your tenderness, brilliance, incredible talent, thoughtfulness, and desire to grow closer to God, ever amaze me.I know that God predestined our love for one another and I'm thrilled that I have you to spend my life with. Life with you is a dream I never have to wake up from. You have my love, my respect, my admiration... my heart
I am very happy to have the opportunity to thank God for placing me with a church family where there are so many spiritual men who willingly serve the Lord and provide such positive role models of men of God. It is truly a blessing for me to acknowledge a few who have affected me since I joined Breath of Life in 2004.
Pastor McPhaull, as pastor you offer weekly reminders of what it means to be faithful to God and you inspire me to seek His mercy and grace in everything that I do and say.
Pastor Frazier, you are always available to provide an encouraging word and an exceptional example of what it truly means to love everyone as Jesus loves each of us.
Pastor Brathwaite, your devotion to your family and the youth of BOL is commendable and a blessing to observe.
Franklin Broomfield, I admire your tenacity and involvement in so many ministries to serve others.
Shomari Davis, you demonstrate a devotion to your wife and sons in a manner that reflects the character of a Godly man and reminds me to seek God first and all else will follow.
Ben Brown, you have assumed the role of head deacon of BOL with a calm spirit and you with the other deacons perform your duties in an organized manner which in turn makes each service such a blessing despite the sometimes hectic circumstances in preparing for the weekly service.
Clarence Brown, you amazingly capture the spiritual essence of the many activities held at the church with your monthly bulletins. It is a joy to share them with my non-Adventist family.
David Hooker, Greg Woods and John Campbell, you consistently share your time each month in feeding the homeless and visiting the seniors without any reluctance whatsoever and you inspire me to try to emulate your character in serving others.
Philip Jordan, your testimonies have helped to uplift me and remind me that my particular circumstances are so meager when compared to Jesus’ crucifixion to save me.
Damian Pipkins, I thank you for when you have willingly taken time to assist me with last minute scheduling conflicts and you always make me smile with your wise cracks.
Jerry Warren, I praise God for all that you do as minister of music. Words can only scratch the surface of your commitment and sacrifice.
The most inspirational person in my life is my teacher, Mr. Danner, who has followed the ups and downs of my education and welcomes my success. He believed that I could be the best if I applied myself, and I have accomplished a lot because of him. Now I am a nurse and see the true meaning of responsibility. Thanks to Mr. Danner, along with my dad, for helping me grow up. Thanks to my dad for appreciating the true meaning of a person's worth, along with abilities.
My father, Phillip Corke, has been the most inspirational man in my life. As a child, he taught me how to pray and sing praises to the Lord at all times and that I should always be content no matter what is happening in my life because God has the answer.
And the second inspirational man came when I met Pastor James Kyle, who helped me to broaden my spiritual walk in close relationship with my Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. He and his wife, Joyce, are true friends and I thank God daily for them.
This Tribute is to my Son
Damian Barry Yuron Patterson/Pipkins
In his mother’s heart his African name is:
Zaph’-nath-pa-ane’ah
In the Patterson/Pipkins family and the City of Inglewood, CA Damian is recognized as Prince Damian. “Ask Damian, he holds wisdom from the Great God of Heaven and Earth”. God has blessed Damian to teach the young people in our community the difference between the principles of God and the politics of this world. That’s why the young people get excited when Damian shows-up. The young people want to be on Damian’s math team because they know they are going to get all the problems right, or they are going to win the game. Damian has a burden on his heart for all the children in the inner city. I believe Damian will be the one God will allow to be the
Zaph’-nath-pa-ane’ah of Los Angeles. Damian keeps standing for Jesus and setting the example. You know you are still yourMom and Dad’s chocolate Huggie Bear. You should also know you are the one who wears the crown and has been blessed with the prosperity of our family; and by the way your real name is:
Zaph’-nath-pa-ane’ah
With Love like Jehovah Emanuel,
Your mom
TRIBUTES FROM ATTONETTE SIMPSON
Community Service Leader
Pastor McPhaull: Has been the greatest influence in my prayer life. I have learned so much from him - patients and when to stop talking and to listen to what God has to say.
Ron Braithwaith: What an influence he is to our young people, he sacrifices his time after working 12 hours a day. Ron brings young people into his home an always goes the extra mile.
Damian Patterson/Pipkins: A blessing to all the kids in Watts – they all love Damian.
Bros James Brown: Bros Brown is a man who lives his life for community service. He dedicates his time, his money and his home. He shares with others the love of God.
Pastor Frazier: Has been a blessing to me and my family; he’s always willing to give a helping hand. I once told his wife Shelia, I hated to ask him anything because before I could finish the sentence his question would be what can I do? As community service leader I see many things others do not see. I could write a book about the kindness and love of Pastor Frazier. I just want to say something you never heard me say before; I love you Pastor Frazier, thank you for all your support. Thank you Shelia for sharing your wonderful husband with all of us here at Breath of Life. PS: Richard loves you to.
John Campbell: A man who wants to do whatever he can to spread the word/works of God.
Ben Brown: A young man wise beyond his years, always there when you need him.
Herman Fenison: A thoughtful caring man who uses his talents to be a blessing to others.
Bernard Pendergrass: A blessing to young and old, caring about the concerns of others.
Greg Woods: A dedicated man who keeps his word. When Greg did have a car he would catch the bus with a cart to feed the homeless. He supports community service physically and financially. When he got out of the hospital - still sick himself - not wanting to disappoint the people in the retirement home - he got out of his sick bed and ministered to them. He has truly been a blessing to community service.
Charles Ammons – Rain or Shine, Charles is faithful and dedicated. – At power hour he is always on time to open the doors of the church and willingly shares his fruit with others.
Alfred Lubin: Always faithful and a blessing to community service.
David Hooper: A man who is always willing to give his time to others.
Angelo Robinson: No job is to small or to GREAT. He jumps right in and gets it done.
Clarence Brown: He Helps SO, SO, SO much, always willing to do whatever.
WE ARE JUST SO BLESSED TO HAVE ALL OF YOU AT BREATH
Pastor Frazier is an awesome servant of the Most High GOD. When he heard my son had been shot several times he left his home and drove for hours to be with me, my family and friends just a couple of hours after my son was admitted to the hospital. He prayed with us and gave us HOPE where there was very little. He spoke with FAITH from the beginning telling us Terrell would survive. The doctor’s faith was weak, but Pastor Frazier prayed and did not waiver. Because of Pastor Frazier’s faith, Terrell did recover. Pastor Frazier was with him throughout the five (5) months he was hospitalized. When his eyes opened one of the first persons he saw was Pastor Frazier. Pastor Frazier asked him, do you know who I am? Terrell smiled and said, “I love you”. We are truly blessed to have Pastor Frazier in our church family
Pastor McPhaull and Pastor Frazier: These men have been a great influence in my life, they don’t just speak with their lips - they keep their words. I admire them because they know how to make good choices; their wives are BIBLE beautify strong women and compliment them in every way. God has truly blessed them with Christian children.
When my son nearly lost his life they were there during our darkest days. Pastor McPhaull was new to Breath of Life and not feeling well himself – drove for hours to be with me and my family, just to comfort us. When my brother passed away he reached out to our family, although I did not call out to anyone at the church, he was there with us. I thank God for our compassionate pastors.
Ron Braithwaite: Our youth pastor – What a true GIFT to Breath of Life and to our youth.
Herman Fenison, Angelo Robinson, and Oscar : They are perfect examples of what Christian young men should be. We can all see God has blessed them with many talents and they put them to use.
Every family has sibling rivalry and in our BOL family Brother Leroy and I are known for our friendly banter. What perhaps is not as evident is the respect and admiration I have for him. His love for his family is seen in a variety of ways: His strong work ethic, his attentiveness and intentional love for his beautiful wife, and the tender and patient way he relates to his precious daughters. His commitment to Christ manifests itself in his love for this church. Elder Pascal constantly lifts up our church in prayer and is involved in various outreach ministries. He is kind and giving and doesn't hesitate to share his gift of healing with others. He has never failed to respond to my calls for medical counsel for myself, my family and my friends. So, Leroy, this time you need not brace yourself, wondering what I'm going to say--as I often do when you direct your comments my way :). I appreciate you for being my family doctor, a sweet brother and my friend.
To Sir Brent with love-
I'm so very proud of all our men at BOL. What a wonderful group of God's men. Of course you are at the very top of my list. Heaven must have sent you from above, because I have really fallen in love with the Jesus in you. You are my fruit in the spirit (thank you Jesus). We have so much to look forward to, especially eternity. I am very proud to have already started that journey with such a wonderful man as you. I love you.
They say women seek men like their fathers...
I did not realize the legitimacy of this preconceived notion until I found myself seeking a man that rivaled the valor of my father, while concurrently mirroring so many of his characteristics and integrity.
Growing up, my father was the epitome of strength, wisdom, love, and security. Although he stopped at nothing to protect me, my father allowed me to make my own decisions; and when I strayed, he was always there to give me guidance that would help me redirect my [own] path. It was this sense of independence that has shaped me into the woman I am today. His exemplary example gave me a tangible blue print for the type of husband that I would soon find and have as the priest of my home. Although my father was setting the stage for the God-fearing man I now call “husband,” he taught me how to take care of myself in the interim. He groomed me into a self-sufficient young lady capable of taking care of myself, in addition to managing the nuances of life. I never needed anyone to change my tires, check my oil, reset the electrical breakers, etc. Whoever said a man can’t teach a girl how to be a woman? Most importantly, my father showed me what love is, exhibited through his unadulterated affection for my mother. My father faithfully professed his love for the ladies in his life…me, my sister, and my mom.
The Lord saw fit to allow Ben, my #1 BOL man, to pick up where my dad left off. My husband embodies everything I’ve ever wanted in a mate and husband. The candor of our friendship is what elevated our relationship and laid the foundation as husband and wife. Ben is truly an inspiration to me. I have seen him morph into a better man than I could have ever imagined. His role as the Head Deacon at BOL has helped to nurture and mature his relationship with the Lord. It was a tall order when he accepted the position, but I am so proud of his commitment to our church.
Ben is the voice of reason in our home. I have absolutely no problem deferring to him, as I always call him the “Knower of All Things.” This man is so smart and has a plethora of knowledge in that bald head of his. He has a superior work ethic, as he stops at nothing to make sure the needs of our family are met. My husband has an incredibly large heart. He is so giving of himself, his time, his energy, and his love…not just to me or those he considers to be his family, but for complete strangers. He has truly exhibited the patience of Job in dealing with me and all of my idiosyncrasies. I admire and respect his forgiving nature and ability to love unconditionally.
Aside from his excellence in his role as husband [btw, there’s always room for improvement :)], I can wholeheartedly vouch for his future excellence in fatherhood. Ben has an amazing ability to connect with children. Undeniably, Ben is going to be a terrific father [as long as his kids can share in his love for fishing and excel in sports]. For their sake, let’s pray that’s a reality.
I love you Ben, my favorite BOL man!
First and foremost: thanks to the Ladies of BOL for establishing such a platform that allows us to publicly acknowledge our men in writing for the world to see!
After writing about my #1 BOL man, I didn't get to praise the other great men of BOL. It's true that birds of a feather flock together.
Ron Brathwaite-you are the greatest example of a man committed to his family and his church. I really admire your leadership and commitment. So many people your age and older don't have half of the responsibilities that you do, but somehow, you manage to excel in all you do. Kudos to you man!! My friend is blessed to have a husband and father as steadfast as you.
Angelo Robinson-Thanks for treading the way for Ben in his role as Head Deacon. You were a tremendous example and he has truly tried to fill the shoes you left behind. Take care of your back and get well soon.
Shomari Davis-Keep laughing! You have such a magnetic personality. It's always a pleasure sharing jokes with you. Thanks for your effort to always look out for our young brothers to help find them employment.
Leroy Pascal-I think you are a remarkable father [and story-teller]. It is so refreshing to see a man that is so committed to his children, and faithfully brings them to Sabbath School.
Ivan Colon-To the Iron Man: you are the epitome and health and fitness as you journey on your bicycle weekend after weekend. Maybe one of these days I’ll be as fit as you. Thank you for your entrepreneurial spirit. You are a motivation to those of us who aspire to start our own business one day.
Greg Cham-You are such a man of strength as you handle all that life throws at you with such dignity and finesse. You are so level-headed and calculated. I admire your wisdom.
Pastor MacPhaull-Thank you for extending your time in the form of counsel to see to it that Ben and I were fit for the journey as husband and wife.
James Kyle-Thanks for keeping the streets safe Mr. Po-Po.
Bernard Pendergrass-Thanks for being an example of what love looks like after 15 years (I think that’s how long you and Dee have been married). You always make marriage look so appealing as you and Dee cuddle during church.
Christopher Erskin & Oscar Daniels-Thanks for always being at church on time to make sure our sound is on point!! I truly appreciate your commitment.
Goldson Brown-Thanks for always being there to capture the happy moments we share as a church family on film [even if it’s not always my good side]. FYI: I photograph best on my left side.
To all the faithful deacons-Thanks for all you do to make the load lighter on my husband!
To all of the other men at BOL, do not feel slighted if you do not see your name mentioned here...just know that there is not enough time in the world to highlight all the goodness of the men at BOL!!!
I want to remember a few men from BOL who have encouraged and supported me including Pastor Kelly, Pastor White and Elder Crockett. In addition,
Joel Jones was a gifted doctor and a kind, gentle man who welcomed me to BOL many years ago.
James and Joyce Kyle, you are the perfect couple. Pastor Kyle, God blessed you with so many gifts as a doctor, minister and a true gift to BOL. You influenced many with your ministry and I have been truly blessed by your presence. You inspired me with patience and encouragement. I am truly grateful to you for all that you do.
I want to remember a few men from BOL who have encouraged and supported me including Pastor Kelly, Pastor White and Elder Crockett. In addition,
Joel Jones was a gifted doctor and a kind, gentle man who welcomed me to BOL many years ago.
James and Joyce Kyle, you are the perfect couple. Pastor Kyle, God blessed you with so many gifts as a doctor, minister and a true gift to BOL. You influenced many with your ministry and I have been truly blessed by your presence. You inspired me with patience and encouragement. I am truly grateful to you for all that you do.
To my fabulous husband, man of God, partner in crime, laugh buddy, playmate, homie-lover-friend, protector, consoler, catalyst, muse, voice of reason, cosmic twin, bodyguard, sillyface, booga, Keithy-poo! I love you so much! Thank you for always striving to be a better man day by day. I know that there is nothing that you, me and God can't get through. This first year has been the best, travelling the world, making music, starting business etc. Thanks for going along with my hairbrained ideas and gently correcting me when I am wrong. Thanks for all the hugs and kisses and most importantly the prayers! I know that you were made by God, just for me and that makes me feel more special than you will ever know! I will love you forever, which just doesn't seem long enough!
XOXOXO
Joy
To my brother Sip,
Man! We have been through so much together and I want you to know that I am more proud of you than words can express! I have seen you surpass incredible odds, always with a smile on your face and a song in your heart! We have laugh, cried and prayed together and you know that I am always there for you! You are a fabulous brother, father, scholar and friend and I love you to pieces!!!
Although he is no longer with us, there is no day that goes by that I don't think about my Daddy! He was the best Daddy that any daughter could EVER have! It is amazing how his prayers, words of advice and comforting words guide me still. I can't wait to see him when I get to heaven and thank him for all he has given me!
Until then...
Joy
Sons of "Silver"
Adorable Alvin: What a good husband and father you are! I love watching you and Debbie
chatting like friends on your back row in church (shame on you!) and the obvious importance
that your sons have in your life. You are so involved in their lives and your gentle, but firm discipline is so lovingly given to them. I salute you for countering the argument of the absence of the black man in the family. How proud the Father will be when you present your wife and sons to Him when He returns.
Handsome Herman: Thank you for your weekly hugs and "Hey, Ma" greetings each Sabbath.
I know that God smiles upon your faithfulness to His church and your pledge to use your
talents for him. There are so many who have made damaging detours and been drawn away by
distractions, but you have been rock steady. Keep up the good work, Hermie!
Precious Patty: I admire your courage to blaze a trail and follow your dreams. It is my prayer
for you that you will sense God's leading in your journey and fulfill His plan for you. I miss your
sweet smile and playfulness. I'm secretly hoping your journey will lead you back home. :)
"Right-on" Rodney: You own property, drive a Jag, attend church regularly, even show up at business meetings! Right on, Rodney! What a wonderful model of success for other men of color to emulate. Every Sabbath you greet me with that winning smile and "Hi, Beautiful!" That's pretty nice for an old girl like me to hear! ;)
Sweet Sippy: I am so proud of you! It is not easy to take on the rigors of the academic
arena when you've been out of school for a long while. I celebrate your A's and B's. I am
honored to be invited to be a part of your success as we dialogue about your classwork. Your children can look to you as an example of perseverance and tenacity. You are
known best for your soul-stirring singing voice, but how beautiful to know that you live the life
you sing about in your songs.
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